Want to get to know me better? Read some of my blog posts below and you’ll be able to get a feel for how my mind ticks. You can also find me on Bluesky and Goodreads, if you want to get to know me more.
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How Feeling Truly Seen Can Transform Intimacy
The hidden work of being misunderstood Have you ever walked away from a conversation feeling strangely exhausted? Not because there…
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Can You Book an Escort Without Penetrative Sex? (And Is It Cheaper?)
One question I’m asked quite often is whether booking an escort automatically means penetrative sex. Before we dive in, it’s…
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A New Name: Ember August
If you’ve visited my website before, you may notice that things look a little different. I’m now going by the…
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Does My Race, Culture or Religion Matter When Booking an Escort?
Having spent the better part of a decade working as an escort in beautifully multi-cultural Melbourne, I’ve had clients from…
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Afternoon Delight: Thank You For Two Incredible Days
I’ve been meaning to sit down and write about these parties ever since they happened, but honestly, I think I…
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Service Subs: Who Is Actually Being Served?
MUSINGS ON SERVICE FROM A MELBOURNE DOMME Every so often my inbox fills up with messages from people describing themselves…
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Dry Humping & Grinding with an Escort in Melbourne
Clothed Intimacy, Real Pleasure, and Why I Want More of It Dry humping and grinding don’t get talked about nearly…
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Oral Sex isn’t Good Foreplay
There is a specific formula that some men tend to want to roll out when engaging in intimacy. We kiss…
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Escort Who Actually Enjoys It in Melbourne
Genuine Connection, Mutual Pleasure, and Real Sex For some men looking for an escort in Melbourne, the biggest hesitation isn’t…
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The Allure of the Older Woman
There is a particular kind of chemistry that exists between a confident woman and someone who is drawn to her…
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Do Escorts Actually Enjoy It? What a Real Intimate Experience Can Feel Like
Do Escorts Actually Enjoy It? It’s a question a lot of people have, even if they don’t always say it…
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When you want intimacy, but can’t make the first move
If you’re thinking about seeing an escort but feel a bit unsure, hesitant, or stuck in your head about how…
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What Happens During an Escort Booking
If you’ve never seen an escort before, it’s completely normal to wonder what the experience is actually like. Many first-time…
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Premature Ejaculation: A Relaxed Guide to Finishing Early
Premature ejaculation (often shortened to PE) is one of the most common sexual concerns men experience, yet it is rarely…
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The Secret to Great Sex
A lot goes into creating a delicious sexual experience. Lovers often concern themselves with technique, timing, performance, chemistry, whether they’re…
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The quiet confidence of choosing an escort
There is something deeply attractive about a person who knows what they want, and allows themselves to have it. Not…
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How to Book an Escort (Without Getting Ignored)
As sex work providers, we can receive a large number of enquiries. Unfortunately, a large portion of them are automatically…
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Yes, we did have chemistry
One of the most common questions escorts receive is whether the chemistry clients feel during a session is real, and…
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Who Sees Escorts? The Truth About the Typical Client
Clients will often ask me about my other clients. Questions I regularly receive are: Sometimes the questions seem to be…
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Do I make you horny baby?
Or were you horny before you saw my ad? Sex drive is a funny thing. There’s definitely a physical element…
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Who are you Really?
My core values are authenticity, connection, creativity and joy. What are yours? Have you thought about it recently? If you…
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Erectile Dysfunction or: How I learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Foreplay
In this blog, I’m going to have a chat about Erectile dysfunction (ED), and my experience of it, as a…
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Unattractive Clients
FAQ: “What if you don’t find me attractive?” One of the most common concerns people share before meeting me is…
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Sexual liberation
What is sexual liberation? Sexual liberation is, at its heart, about freedom. Freedom to understand your desires, to explore them…
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A Dominant Travel Companion
Luxury travel, indulgence, and spoiling your favourite Domme For some people, the most exciting power dynamics unfold outside the bedroom….
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Threeways without the awkwardness
Threeways have a reputation for being incredibly hot. And in theory, they absolutely are. More bodies, more attention, more possibility….
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What do you really want?
Discover your authentic desires and your authentic limits My most popular offering by a long mile is Ember’s Choice, a…
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Why I See Sexworkers
Recently, my bestie, absolute babe and top human being, the gorgeous, talented and very intelligent Evie Elysian wrote a blog…
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oh my GOD I love my Job
Oh what fun I have been having lately. And what fun I have in store… I’m especially excited about the…
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News | Experiences | Thoughts
My Party Experience – Nov 2024
Eight Babes. 14 Tickets. 3 hours of social and sexy times, with all the babes ready and willing. This idea…
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Sex Work is Work. But its still Sex.
Picture this. You have been on a couple dates with someone cute. You’ve been getting to know each other and…
