Happy Birthday to Me!

I consider myself fabulously blessed to be living the life I am living.

But it is via a very specific series of excellent life choices that I found myself, on my 41^st birthday, in a warm, slightly sticky room, being presented with a delicious purple frosted raspberry cream cake, as 20 completely naked and completely lovely people sang me the birthday song with gusto. My gorgeous friend Alice was nearby, bouncing up and down merrily on the dick of one of my delightful guests, as they sang.

I blew my candles out to the sounds of Hip Hip Hooray, wished for a free caravan as I always do when wish opportunities avail themselves, then plunged by hand straight into the cake, grabbed a big handful and immediately tasted it. Glorious!   I then smeared some of the cake on my chest, while continuing to stuff my face, and requested people sample the delicious frosting off my body.  Many were happy to oblige.

This will be a memory I hold dear for the rest of my life; it brings a smile to my face every time I think of it, and I am incredibly grateful to everyone that participated in my birthday celebrations. I absolutely love the hedonistic flow state that is possible at these events, and this one truly took the cake.

Let’s rewind a little though.

While I have hosted many events to date, this one was a little different. I was feeling like I really, really wanted to party, but didn’t want the fuss of advertising or the heavy administrative work that comes with the parties usually.  It’s been a big, busy year and I have a lot of other things I am working on.  So I decided for this one, I would only invite people that had already been so that I didn’t have to explain the whole thing all over again, with a couple of very enthusiastic exceptions who had already done the groundwork for me by reading my previous articles and write-ups.

So, a sort of closed event if you will, with trusted repeat visitors, and I think this was a great choice for my Birthday celebration that kept it reasonably low maintenance.

I promise I will host another event that will be a bit more open, but my preference for guests is people that I don’t have to sell it to, you know? People who already know they want to be there, who have heard all they need to hear, people who have an understanding of pleasure as a shared, immersive experience, rather than those who are looking for the most bang for their buck. It’s important to me that everyone involved be a good fit, and I was so delighted by the turnout, as well as the gorgeous babes that collaborated with me to make this day so special.

Special mention to the gorgeous Violet Wells, who wasn’t on the original roster but when crowd favourite Cecilia Barker fell ill and was unable to attend, Violet stepped in at short notice, having never attended an event and not fully knowing what to expect, and had an absolute ball. 

Violet is one of Alice Elle’s regular doubles partners, and I had never had the pleasure of seeing them together before.  This was such a delight, they have wonderful chemistry together and I can see why the Alice/Violet combo is so popular.

My very close and personal friend Cleo St. Clair also got to experience her first party and had such a delicious time and is very appreciative to all the lovely gents that made her first party so enjoyable. Nyssa Lavigne was another wonderfully yummy addition to our gorgeous group of babes this time round. Total smoke show and fit in so well with this sensual feast of an event. She made comment afterwards that she felt like she had been a lazy lover because she had mostly laid back and enjoyed being devoured, but I assured her that was very hot and an important component of the party.

Also in attendance were some of my other usual sweeties, Ivy Harper, Chloe Lane and Evie Elysian. We were all pretty sad Cecilia couldn’t make it, so I guess we’ll just have to do the whole thing again sometime soon to make up for it!

We started with a half-hour of social time while everyone arrived, showers were had, snacks were eaten, I always wonder if there will be enough room for everyone during this time because it feels like a very full house.  But when things move to the sensual side everyone tends to spread out a bit, and I often found empty bedrooms and available couches. The whole thing felt like a whirlwind, and I didn’t get to touch base with everyone as much as I would have liked to, but I had such an incredible time and was so blissed out by the end of it.

I blew up a few huge sex balloons and got railed while feeling like I was floating on a cloud. I loved exploring the party, wandering around finding people to make out with. Total kid-in-a-candy-store type vibes, so many people to explore and play with, everyone in good spirits, excited to be there. I experienced intense pleasure, and I witnessed many others in a state of intense pleasure.  One of the best things about the parties is the living art we get to witness.

Seeing people playing together, seeing people in ecstasy, so many beautiful bodies writhing and touching and kissing and fucking. It’s wonderful to watch and I often took a moment to stand back and survey the lands, sitting with my gratitude and sheer delight, admiring the view.

I’m still figuring out the perfect length for these events. Two hours of sex is already a decent effort; two hours with multiple partners requires considerably more stamina. Next time I’m contemplating a longer event with more social time and some scheduled interludes — including a little more girl-on-girl play — giving everyone space to rest, watch, flirt and then dive back in. I’d love to know what past and prospective guests think.

If you’re wondering why I am usually doing my events on a Thursday afternoon – I have polled interested parties and work-day time is by far the most popular, that’s why I do them then. While I have a lot of people *interested* in attending parties, not everyone is brave enough to actually come, and we can’t proceed without the numbers. So, I go with the majority when I am scheduling something in and I prioritise fitting into the schedules of those enthusiastic repeat party-guests who send me a deposit the second I let it slip that an event might be coming up.   Luckily this time, Thursday was my birthday!

I have had an Expressions of Interest form on my website for a while, collecting people’s interest, but going forward I will be canning that mailing list and instead I will say this. 

If you are interested in attending an event in the future, and you have not been to one before – spend some time with me or one of my friends and talk to us about it.

Let’s have a conversation about it, make it real for you. We can take the time to answer all your questions, get to know you, find out if you are a good fit and allay any fears you might have about the experience.

We have no physical or aesthetic requirements – these events are for people of all shapes, sizes, races, genders, ages (18+ obviously).  But I love the vibe of these events, I want to protect that at all costs. It’s an intentionally curated space for free-loving sweethearts only.

If you think you would fit in, please reach out! I would love to hear from you and the more interest and enquiries I have, the sooner the next event happens. Be the orgy you want to see in the world!