Dinner Dates With an Escort in Melbourne

Many people like to know a bit more about what an experience might be like before they take the plunge, so I wanted to take the time to do a deep dive on what extended dates look like with me.

A dinner date with an escort can be as simple as good food and excellent company, or it can become an entire evening: dinner, conversation, affection, an adventure somewhere in Melbourne, private time afterwards, perhaps even waking up together the following morning.

For me, the point isn’t to perform a simulation of a date.

It is a date.

There happens to be a booking around it, but its exactly that structure that can make it surprisingly easy to relax into the experience. We know why we’re there. We’ve already talked about boundaries and expectations. Nobody needs to spend the evening wondering whether they’ve said the right thing, whether intimacy might happen, or whether the other person secretly wants to leave.

We can have a good time together, without all the extra baggage.

Where do we start?

If you have the hotel room, I’ll meet you there first, for a short time. Meet and greet, drop off my bag.

If I have the room, you might meet me there instead, or we might arrange to meet at the restaurant if you prefer.

I will warmly greet you when we meet, find out if you’re a hugger, kiss on the cheek, that sorta thing. I’ve been looking forward to meeting you! I love meeting new people, or perhaps having the opportunity for some quality time with someone I’ve only met in shorter settings previously. I’m excited! You might be excited too – or you might be nervous.

Most people are, at least a little, and especially the first time we meet. I’m a complete stranger! Meeting new people, if its not part of your regular day-to-day, can be scary, and this is not just meeting – this is a date, this is intimacy, you don’t know me, you’re probably going to take your clothes off later.

Its actually a big deal and an incredibly brave thing to do. Nervousness is normal, even if you’re excited and have been looking forward to our date for ages.

Often, just saying, “I’m really nervous,” is enough to take some of the power out of it. I’m not going to make your nervousness weird. Nervousness is one of the most normal things in the world, and I’m used to being around it. I’m happy to take the lead in conversation and logistics while you get comfortable. I’ll link my arm in yours as we walk or rest a hand on your thigh while we’re sitting together if that kind of affection feels right for us.

Extended dates allow time for those nerves to settle, for you to relax into the space and get to know me a bit.

What restaurant should we go to?

Sometimes you already have somewhere in mind, or I throw out a few suggestions and we choose together.

I particularly like places where we can share food. A table slowly fills with plates and suddenly we’re passing things back and forth, comparing favourites, convincing one another to try something, ordering one more dish because something at the next table looked too good.

It absolutely does not have to be fine dining.

I love beautiful restaurants and impressive creative tasting menus. I also think getting our fingers all sticky with some street tacos is a total vibe. We could try Ethiopian, Moroccan, unusual flavours or classic dishes at a corner pub, tiny neighbourhood restaurants, or somewhere glamorous with spectacular plating and world renowned chefs. Melbourne is one of the best places in the world to get a meal and I love exploring all it has to offer.

The only real constraint with me is that I’m vegan, so a steakhouse or seafood restaurant obviously isn’t going to be my idea of a romantic evening. You are welcome to eat whatever you like, though often people choose to go plant-based for the evening so we can share more dishes.

What do we talk about?

The food in front of us is a great starting point. Then travel, or work. The strange places our lives have taken us. Where we grew up. Where we’ve been recently. Restaurants we loved. Places we want to visit. Something you’re building. Something I’m writing. Photography. Cooking. Science fiction. Art. Board games.

If you’re passionate about something I know nothing about, even better. Tell me everything. I love hearing about people’s passions. I love learning how somebody else experiences the world. Give me a person who lights up halfway through dinner because I’ve stumbled onto the subject they could talk about for six hours and I’m happy. Please, infodump on me.

And if you are shy and give me absolutely nothing to work with? I will happily yap at you about my passions instead.

We’ll survive.

Sometimes the conversation goes somewhere deeper

One of the things I love about longer dates is that conversation has time to wander.

Maybe we end up talking about sex and relationships.

Maybe there’s something you’ve been struggling with and we accidentally spend half an hour pulling it apart together. My work and interests mean conversations sometimes wander into sex education or psychology territory, and I genuinely enjoy those deep dives when somebody wants them.

Sometimes people need to vent, sometimes they want advice. Sometimes they just need a warm person sitting across from them saying, essentially, yes, I can understand why that was hard.

And then we order dessert, or another drink. Or realise we have been talking so much that dinner has somehow taken two hours.

This is one of the reasons I don’t really recommend a three-hour booking for a proper restaurant dinner.

Restaurants take time and I don’t want us spending a beautiful dinner wondering whether we have enough time left for intimacy. Three hours can be fantastic for lunch, a picnic with somewhere private nearby, or ordering something delicious to the room. But for dining out, I like some breathing space.

After dinner

Perhaps we walk back to the hotel holding hands. Perhaps dinner was only one part of the evening.

We might go to a comedy show, a concert, the theatre or a movie. We could wander through an exhibition or visit the zoo or aquarium. Find somewhere for another drink. Play board games. Go for a walk. Head out for an ice cream. Watch something back at the room.

With five or six hours, there’s room for the evening to become something more expansive.

And with longer bookings still, the plan can loosen considerably.

There’s something quite lovely about having enough time together to say, actually, do you want to go do this?

Although I’m also a planner. “We’ll just find something” sounds wonderfully spontaneous until two hungry people are standing on a Melbourne footpath scrolling through Google Maps.

A little structure helps spontaneity work.

And then we head to the bedroom (if you like)

By now, we know each other a little better.

I know whether you’re still nervous or whether you’ve completely relaxed. I know whether you tend to hang back or confidently take the lead. I have a much better sense of how to move into the next part of our time together.

Sometimes I keep the conversation going for a while. Sometimes I initiate intimacy, or you are welcome to take the lead.

What happens from there can look completely different from one person to another. Sweet, kinky, soft, high-energy, sensual, playful. Whatever floats your boat.

That isn’t really the story I’m telling on this page, but you can read about all the sexy options on my Sexy Liaisons page – all these options are available as part of a longer date. The important part is that we don’t feel like strangers anymore, and I think sex is better that way.

Dinner gives us time to settle into each other’s company. Nervousness dissipates and we become more present. You don’t need to spend the first twenty minutes of intimacy trying to work out who I am and whether I’m enjoying myself.

We’ve already been laughing together for hours.

Why spend all that time together?

Not everyone wants to jump straight into bed – shocking, I know.

If you simply need an orgasm, there are dramatically cheaper ways to obtain one. A date is something else.

It’s being able to put your phone away for several hours and know that nowhere else requires you. Being able to slow down and truly immerse yourself in the moment.

It’s having somebody interesting sitting across from you who genuinely wants to know what you’re talking about.

It’s affection without uncertainty. Conversation without needing to impress anybody.

Sex, without spending an entire date wondering whether sex might happen, self-conscious that every move might ruin your chances.

And perhaps most importantly, it’s stepping outside your ordinary life for a little while.

Most relationships come with history and responsibility attached. Even when we love those people desperately, we carry things together. Somebody needs something. The dishes aren’t done. You’re worried they’re upset. There are logistics to organise. There is history behind a comment that would mean nothing coming from anybody else.

A booking creates a strange little pocket outside of that. I am fully responsible for my own experience and my own emotions. I know how to state my boundaries.I am not sitting beside you silently hoping you’ll correctly deduce what I need. You don’t have to manage me.

For these few hours, your job is basically to be respectful and be here with me. That intentionality changes something. When you have deliberately carved out an evening -booked the time, chosen somewhere lovely, organised a room, perhaps travelled – you tend to actually inhabit it.

Nothing else needs to be happening right now, it’s just us. And that can feel really freeing!

Fancy dinner?

Maybe you’ve been staring at the menu of somewhere spectacular for six months. Maybe you’re coming to Melbourne and don’t particularly want to spend your evening alone.

Maybe you want to dress up, eat something wonderful, talk to somebody interesting and disappear from normal life for a few hours.

Or perhaps you simply want to know what it feels like to put your phone away, sit across from somebody who is entirely present with you, and know that nowhere else requires you right now.

Tell me what you’re imagining. We can plan dinner, and see where the evening takes us. Reach out via my Booking Form, or SMS me on 0435 349 800.

See below if you would like more information about what a Dinner Date experience can be like.

Frequently Asked Questions About Dinner Dates

With me, it usually begins with meeting briefly at the hotel or another agreed location before heading to dinner together. We eat, talk, flirt and enjoy the evening like any other date.

There might be hand-holding, kissing or other affection depending on what feels comfortable for both of us.

After dinner we might return to the hotel, continue to another activity, or simply keep talking somewhere cosy. If sexual intimacy is part of our plans, dinner gives us time to build rapport and relax before moving into that part of the evening.

Longer bookings can include another activity entirely: comedy, theatre, galleries, movies, drinks, board games, sightseeing or almost anything else we think would be fun.

For a proper sit-down restaurant dinner, I usually find three hours quite tight.

Dinner itself can easily take two hours once you include drinks, ordering, several courses and conversation. That doesn’t leave much time afterwards and can create the exact feeling I don’t want on a longer date: watching the clock.

Three hours can be wonderful for lunch, ordering food to the room, a picnic with private time nearby, or another deliberately compact plan.

If you want a relaxed restaurant dinner followed by private time, four hours or more is much more comfortable.

Four hours works beautifully for a relatively straightforward dinner date: approximately two hours for dinner and two hours afterwards for intimacy, cuddles, conversation and an unhurried goodbye.

At five or six hours, we have room to make a proper evening of it. Dinner might be accompanied by a show, walk, gallery, movie, board game or another activity. There is also considerably more time for conversation and, if we want it, more than one round of intimacy or time to explore kink without rushing.

At eight hours and beyond, dinner becomes one piece of a much larger date. This is more of a full-day experience that could end with dinner, or have dinner in the middle of the date depending on when we get started. An example schedule for an eight hour full-day might be: 2pm start, head to galleries, then to dinner, then intimacy. Or, start at 9am, have a nice outdoor excursion, lunch, intimacy.

And an overnight is another experience again. These usually start at 6pm, with dinner first followed by intimacy, then we sleep together, then in the morning share breakfast together and enjoy each other’s company a while longer before finishing up around 10am.

Absolutely! Some people primarily want companionship: dinner, conversation, affection, an activity, or simply an enjoyable evening with somebody new.

We can discuss what you’re hoping for when we plan the booking so we’re both clear about the kind of date we’re creating.

You can also change your mind, or keep the options open. I’m easy! A dinner date with an escort does not need to include sex, but it can if you want.

Usually only for about five minutes.

Many people arrive nervous. That’s completely normal.

I find acknowledging it helps a lot. If you tell me you’re nervous, I am not going to interpret that as you doing the date badly. I’ll simply know where you’re at.

I naturally tend to lead conversation and activities when somebody is shy. Once we are talking and laughing, the nervousness usually disappears remarkably quickly.

Clients often tell me afterwards that it felt far more natural than they expected, sometimes as though we’d already known each other for a while.

Melbourne has such an incredible array of dining establishments and it’s hard to pick a place sometimes. As a vegan, my choices are somewhat skewed – I love places that cater to me specifically! Some of my favourite spots:

CBD

Bodega Underground. Mexican, with vegan options, and a 100% gluten-free food menu. Dark basement bar, cocktails, tequila and a lively late-night atmosphere. Great if we want something fun rather than fancy.
Gong De Lin. Vegan Chinese. Very casual and definitely not somewhere I’d choose for the ambience, but excellent when the priority is lots of delicious Chinese food rather than a glamorous restaurant.
Maha. Middle Eastern. Not fully vegan, but excellent vegan options and proper plant-based menus. Polished, intimate and one of the more special-occasion choices on the list.
Patsy’s. Vegetarian wine bar with plenty of vegan options. Cosy, stylish and intimate; a nice middle ground between casual and fine dining.
Fortress Melbourne, Emporium. Huge nerdy gaming venue with board games, arcade games and a tavern. Very casual, fun, and the food and mocktails are genuinely so tasty. We could even join a game of Dungeons and Dragons if you pick your days right.
Marché Board Game Cafe. Very cute board-game cafe with a huge game library and fantastic vegan options. Great for a playful nerdy date where we can eat, talk and play something together.

Southbank

Spice Temple, Crown. Chinese. Not vegan, but has vegan options. Dark, atmospheric and quite sexy; good for a more polished dinner date or when we’re already staying at Crown.

Carlton

Green Man’s Arms. Plant-based pub with a cosy, relaxed neighbourhood feel. A good choice when we want genuinely excellent vegan food without making the evening feel formal.

Collingwood

SHU. Fully vegan modern Sichuan. Interesting, creative food and a great option when we want something a little unusual. Intimate and very date-night-ish.
Smith + Daughters. Fully vegan. Creative modern plant-based food in a stylish space. Lively rather than formal, but still feels like somewhere you go for a proper dinner.

Fitzroy

ONDA. Latin American, with plenty of vegan options. Bright, lively and colourful, with shared plates and cocktails. The kitchen is 100% gluten free, making it an especially good choice if gluten is an issue.
Red Sparrow Pizza. Fully vegan pizza, burgers and sides, with a rooftop bar. Very casual and fun; excellent for pizza and cocktails before or after doing something else nearby.
Vegie Bar. Vegetarian with loads of vegan options. Very casual, busy and colourful with a huge menu. Good when we want somewhere relaxed where nobody needs to dress up.

North Melbourne

Moroccan Soup Bar. Vegetarian with plenty of vegan food. The restaurant itself is extremely casual and unpretentious, but the food is amazing. Moroccan food designed for sharing, which I always think makes a date more fun.

Footscray

Hail Lilith. Fully vegan, and gloriously goth. Dark, alternative, eccentric and a little theatrical – definitely one of the more unusual date options on this list. The mocktails are to die for.

Sunshine

Gojo Ethiopian. My favourite Ubereats go-to and even better when you dine in. Very casual, generous and delicious, with food eaten communally from injera. A particularly good choice if sharing food sounds fun.

Multiple locations

Lord of the Fries. Fully vegan fast food. Absolutely not fine dining, but sometimes burgers and chips are exactly the right date. Good for something extremely casual, a quick meal before another activity, or late-night food rather than making dinner the event itself.

I am a pretty talented cook myself, I love to cook and I love to share my food with others. If you would prefer we stay in and prepare food ourselves, I’m happy to arrange this. If you would like to cook for me, then I would absolutely LOVE that. We can also share the cooking experience and prepare food as a shared activity, this can be really cute.

My cooking style is flavour over presentation – I cook to taste, I have a bit of a wizardly vibe, haphazardly throwing things into a pot making magic.

I do also enjoy cooking to a recipe as it allows me to access flavours from all over the world – we are only a recipe and a shopping trip away from our next culinary adventure. If you have a special recipe you would like to share with me, whether you are cooking, teaching me, or exploring something new together, I would enjoy that so much. I love trying new things.

Logistically – this requires a kitchen. Although, I am also happy to bring along a delicious, prepared meal to reheat in a microwave and serve up if you would like to sample my home cooking. This will likely be some sort of hearty flavourful casserole with beans or chickpeas, served with sourdough or rice. Currently obsessed with baking Turkish pastries and will happily bring this along or can show you how if we have access to an oven. Brownies, cookies and muffins also available on request.

You do not need to arrive sparkling with witty banter.

I’m enthusiastic about an unreasonable number of things, so if you’re quiet I can happily fill space until you feel comfortable participating.

I will also ask questions and make room for you when you do want to talk. If there’s something you’re passionate about, I genuinely want to hear about it.

You don’t need to perform confidence for me. You can talk to me about how you are feeling and we can address the anxiety and work through it together, if that would feel helpful to you. I’ve been on many, many dates with strangers so I no longer have social anxiety – but I used to! I know how it feels, and I’m not going to be annoyed or bothered.

You have come to the right place.

I’m AuDHD myself, and a significant number of my clients are autistic, ADHD, or both. Honestly, it’s more common for my clients to be neurospicy than not. If you are reading this and are neurotypical… look, I’m not a psychologist but…

Autism is a spectrum, and autistic people can have very different communication styles, sensory needs, support needs and ways of moving through the world. I don’t assume that being autistic looks one particular way.

You do not need to mask for me, perform conventional social skills, maintain eye contact, or worry that I’m going to think you’re strange because you communicate differently.

If you prefer things to be clear and explicit, I’m good at that. If you want to know exactly what is happening next, we can talk through the plan. If you need more processing time, have sensory preferences, communicate very directly, use alternative ways of communicating, or would rather I take the lead socially for a while, we can work with that.

You’re very welcome to tell me beforehand what helps you feel comfortable. I would much rather know what works for you than expect you to fit yourself into some imaginary version of how a date is supposed to look.

And if I accidentally mention your Special Subject halfway through dinner, please feel entirely free to infodump at me for the next forty-five minutes. I will probably have questions.

Absolutely tell me what you need.

Disability can mean an enormous range of things, and I don’t assume that two people with the same diagnosis will have the same access needs, communication style or level of support.

I’m very happy to plan around accessibility where I reasonably can. That might mean choosing a wheelchair-accessible hotel or restaurant, making sure there is an accessible bathroom, avoiding venues with lots of stairs, allowing extra time for transitions, choosing somewhere quieter, or simply talking through the evening in more detail beforehand.

If you have support workers, they can absolutely be part of the logistics of the date. I’m comfortable with a support worker accompanying us to dinner if that is what you need, assisting with transport or personal care, and helping you get settled at the hotel before giving us privacy for the intimate part of the booking.

You’re welcome to tell me as much as is useful about how your disability affects the booking and what support makes things easier for you. I don’t need your entire medical history; I need to know what will help us create something comfortable, safe and enjoyable.

There will also be disabilities and support needs that are outside my experience or that I’m simply not the most suitable provider for. If that turns out to be the case, I recommend contacting Touching Base. They maintain a referral list of disability-friendly sex workers and services and can help people with disability, families and support staff find providers whose experience and accessibility are a better match.

One of the most common anxieties people have is that I’ll secretly dislike them and spend the booking pretending otherwise.

That’s not a service I offer.

I bring warmth, friendliness and positive regard to my dates, but I don’t perform an invented personality or pretend to like things I don’t.

I’m unapologetically myself.

I also screen carefully because I want to spend time with people I can comfortably share space with. If I were genuinely having a terrible time, I would rather end a booking than manufacture enthusiasm for hours.

The connection doesn’t have to be romantic destiny. It does need to be real enough for two people to enjoy an evening together.

I don’t think of what I do as acting, but I will be cosy and familiar with you, as if I am your girlfriend or partner.

There is absolutely a professional structure around our time together, but the person sitting across the table from you is still me.

I’ll disagree with you. I’ll talk excitedly about things I love. I’ll have opinions. I’ll laugh when something is funny rather than because I’m supposed to.

The appeal, at least with me, is not buying a perfectly scripted fantasy person. It’s spending time with an actual person.

But it’s definitely not first-date vibes, I will be affectionate, warm and friendly and anyone who sees us would assume we are together.

There isn’t one particular type of person.

I’ve met people who are widowed or divorced, people who work too much to have capacity for a relationship, travellers who want company while visiting Melbourne, lonely people, polyamorous and ENM people who want another connection without traditional dating, and people who simply enjoy occasionally treating themselves to a beautiful companion.

For some, dinner acts as a kind of social lubricant. They don’t enjoy having sex with complete strangers and would much rather spend a couple of hours getting comfortable together first.

Others simply saw me online, thought I looked fun, and decided they wanted to hang out with me. I’m a whole vibe!

Because they are fundamentally different experiences.

A short booking can be fantastic when that’s what you want.

A long date gives us time to build rapport, share an experience, eat together, talk properly, become affectionate and let the rest of the world disappear for a while.

People often tell me that they feel unusually relaxed afterwards. Some say they felt more like themselves than they had in a long time.

There is something powerful about deliberately setting aside several hours in which there is nowhere else you have to be.

Either of us.

Sometimes you already have somewhere you’ve been wanting to try. Other times I’ll suggest several options and we choose together.

I generally prioritise two things: somewhere genuinely good and somewhere conveniently located.

If the hotel is already booked, I’ll usually look for great vegan-friendly restaurants nearby.

Even better, we choose the restaurant first because we’re excited about it and then find accommodation nearby.

Melbourne gives us an extraordinary amount of choice.

Absolutely not.

Fine dining can be beautiful, particularly when we’re trying something creative or unfamiliar.

But a brilliant casual restaurant can be every bit as memorable. Shared plates, street food, Ethiopian food, Moroccan food, something neither of us has eaten before. I care much more about whether we’ll enjoy the experience than whether the napkins cost $40 each.

One of the best dining experiences I’ve had on a booking wasn’t a restaurant at all: a client organised a private chef to cook for us. This is the height of fance! But I also love digging into a greasy bag of Lord of the Fries, while sitting on some concrete steps overlooking the city lights reflecting on the Yarra River.

Absolutely.

If our accommodation has a kitchen, we could even cook together.

You might want to cook for me. I might cook with you. We might order something excellent and eat in the room. Or hire a private chef to make magic while we sit back and enjoy each other’s company.

Staying in can be particularly good for shorter bookings because we aren’t spending a substantial portion of our time travelling and waiting for restaurant service.

And sometimes Uber Eats in bed is simply the correct answer.

Dinner can be the entire activity or simply one part of a longer date.

We could see a comedy show, concert, theatre performance or movie. Visit a gallery, museum, aquarium or zoo. Explore somewhere in Melbourne. Have drinks. Walk somewhere beautiful. Play board games. Watch something together at the hotel.

If you’re booking five hours or more, adding another activity becomes much easier without making the evening feel like an itinerary spreadsheet.

I like having at least the skeleton of a plan.

“We’ll eat something somewhere and see what happens” sounds spontaneous until we’re both hungry and trying to make decisions on a footpath.

Usually you send me a thoughtful enquiry explaining what you’re imagining, and we build from there.

Some clients like arranging a planning call so we can talk through restaurants, accommodation, timing and activities together. Check out my planning page for more information.

That is completely fine. I’m good at adapting, cool under pressure and great at problem-solving.

Restaurants run late. Weather changes. Events finish early. Somebody suddenly wants dessert. We discover we’re having such a good conversation that neither of us wants to leave the table yet.

I don’t need an evening to follow the original plan perfectly for it to be successful.

You’re welcome to end our date early, for any reason. You might be feeling overwhelmed or unwell, you might have felt like we spent enough time together, or you might have received an urgent call. If you want to cut our night short at any time, for any reason, you can. You’re never locked in to do anything in particular with me.

I do want to note that I cannot offer refunds or partial refunds, my fees are based on the time I have initially set aside for you.

People generally see two people on a date.

I don’t use language in public that unnecessarily advertises the nature of our arrangement. I also don’t dress in an overtly sexual way, I keep it cute and classy.

Affection depends on what is comfortable for you. If we’re happily walking around holding hands and kissing, yes, we probably look like we’re dating.

If discretion matters and you would prefer us to present more like friends or colleagues, tell me beforehand and I can adjust accordingly.

If there is a dramatic age difference, other people may wonder what has brought us together. I’m not fussed – let them wonder, I say!

I’m also not bothered if people know I am an escort, so if you want to introduce me as such, that is also perfectly fine – unless we are at an establishment that does not allow paid guests, such as a swingers party – in that case we need to be discreet.

Wear something appropriate to where we’re going that still feels like you.

If you’ve booked somewhere very formal, dress accordingly. If we’re getting tacos and going to a comedy show, you don’t need to arrive dressed for the opera.

If you’d like me to dress in a particular way for the evening, you are welcome to ask. Some requests will be approved, others won’t. If you want me to tell you what to wear, I can do that too.

Usually, yes.

I like dinner first because it gives us time to talk and become comfortable before we move into physical intimacy.

I’m open to doing things differently, though.

For example, if a booking begins in the afternoon, we could spend private time together first and eat later.

I find leaving a hotel and going to a formal dinner immediately after sex can feel slightly jarring when we’re both relaxed and sleepy, though. Ordering food in often suits that flow much better.

Very easily.

Dinner is actually a beautiful beginning to an overnight because there isn’t a looming goodbye immediately after we return to the hotel.

We can take our time over dinner, come back, be intimate if we want to, cuddle, talk and eventually fall asleep together.

I love cuddles during the night.

I’m also an early riser, so breakfast is important to me. If you’re somebody who doesn’t want to leave the room looking for food approximately twelve seconds after waking up, I may have cleverly packed myself a snack.

Then there’s morning conversation, cuddles, breakfast and perhaps more intimacy if we’re both in the mood.

An overnight feels less like making a dinner date longer and more like temporarily sharing a little piece of life.

I think it’s an especially lovely reason to book one.

Melbourne is one of those cities where eating can genuinely be the night’s activity. There are extraordinary restaurants across an enormous range of cuisines, styles and budgets.

And you also get a local person to experience it with rather than eating alone in your hotel or trying to make conversation with somebody you matched with on an app three hours earlier.

Tell me what kind of night you want to have and we can build something around it.

Usually very little.

Often both of us put our phones away almost entirely. That is one of my favourite things about long bookings.

Modern life contains very few windows where we are genuinely allowed to stop monitoring everything else.

For these hours, nothing else particularly matters.

We’re here.

I will probably take a quick photo of any pretty food or drinks though, I’m a millennial.

Restaurant meals, drinks, tickets, transport during the booking and other activities are covered by you in addition to my booking fee.

If we’re travelling a significant distance between our accommodation, restaurant and activities, I strongly recommend booking enough time that transit doesn’t turn an otherwise relaxed evening into a race.

Location really does matter.

My rates:

3 hours: $1600
4 hours: $2000
5 hours: $2400
6 hours: $2800
8 hours or overnight: $3000

Particularly for a shorter date, this can be a great option! I have such a sweet tooth. Melbourne has a few late night options and we could head out for ice cream or hit up an Açaí bar, or something a bit more sit-down like dessert at a restaurant. Pancake Parlour is a casual favourite of mine that is open around the clock! It doesn’t have to be fancy (but it can be!). Oh also! Boba! Yes, let’s get a boba.

Or – if that was a euthemism: You can absolutely book me for just intimacy, my maximum session length is 2 hours for this type of encounter. Read more on my Sexy Liaisons page. For bookings of 3 hours+, I wanna do something else.

Absolutely! I’m happy to head to dinner, then make our intimate time look like however you want, whether that be Ember’s Choice, Girlfriend Experience, or something less vanilla like BDSM and power dynamics or kink and fetish exploration or a Pornstar Experience. We can even invite a friend along and turn it into group play! Some of my favourite dinner dates have included 3-way, 4-way and 5-way dynamics.

If you would like to include roleplay or power dynamics as part of our non-bedroom time together, I’m happy to discuss this with you also, to see if it is a good fit.

Totally fine – everything I have said on this page also applies to Breakfast and Lunch, or a session where no meal is shared at all. I made this page about dinner because it’s the most popular option, and for SEO purposes. I if you are looking for an escort in Melbourne for a lunch date then honestly that’s even better because we might get to enjoy the sunshine together and there’s lots more potential for side quests during the day. I love a side quest! We could enjoy an exhibition at an art gallery, or plunge the depths of the Minotaur basement.

I enjoy it but don’t go often – this is good for you, because there is a high chance I have not seen the thing you want to go see. I love a visual spectacular, and I love watching talented people do their thing.

I love watching any performance that showcases a person’s talent, whether that’s singing, dancing, acrobatics or playing an instrument. A solo performer with a flamenco guitar, or a dazzling spectacular put on by an exceptionally good band. I’m very easy to impress when someone is genuinely brilliant at what they do.

I’m not a big fan of crude humour, but I do love a comedy show. Nothing right-wing!

Experiencing the magic of a symphony orchestra is pretty high on my list, and I absolutely adore the movie-and-orchestra combinations Hamer Hall has been putting on over the last few years. Blade Runner was already an amazing film, but with the MSO playing alongside it? Incredible.

My favourite show I’ve been to in recent times was Hear My Eyes doing Terminator 2: Judgment Day.. A laser show and an entirely new live soundtrack to one of the best movies ever made.

That was a very, very good date night.

Proper nerd, I’m super into Gloomhaven and Frosthaven, Sleeping Gods, Unfathomable, Magic: The Gathering, Flamecraft and Tea Witches. Not all of these are conducive to a one-off gaming session, but some are and I love trying new things! I like things that are clever and calculated, but I also enjoy diving into a quick round of something fast and cute like Happy Little Dinosaurs. Big fan of the classics too – Pictionary, Scattergories, Scrabble.

I have a vast collection and I’m happy to bring some games along if you would like to include a game in our time together. I find them to be a wonderful social lubricant and a lovely way to unlock someone’s playful side. Play is such an important part of life for me, and many people don’t get to access it as much as they would like. It might on the surface seem like a frivolous waste of time, but it actually goes much deeper than that. If you haven’t played a boardgame in years, it’s probably high time that you did.